No Comparison

John 3:22-4:3 (May 4)

Mankind has been in competition with each other since sin entered the world. Cain and Abel are an example of this, as are many others we find in scripture.

The desire for success, for riches, for fame and notoriety...all of this has pushed us to strive to win.

Lack of self-confidence and feelings of unworthiness have caused us to compare ourselves to others. Social media has elevated this to even higher levels.

That is why it is so refreshing to read today's NT scripture. Here we find John the Baptist continuing his work, baptizing the people who came to him.

At the same time, Jesus, who is now in the Judean countryside, is also doing some baptizing of his own. A certain Jew noticed this and started a discussion with John's disciples. They took this discussion to John, saying "Rabbi, the man you met on the other side of the Jordan River, the one you identified as the Messiah, is also baptizing people. And everybody is going to him instead of coming to us."

Doesn't that sound like someone worried and complaining that someone else is getting their 'Business"? These disciples seem to have a competitive spirit. They appear to see the success of Jesus as a threat to John's success.

We often find that, even in ministry. While the spotlight, all that we do, should be pointing to Jesus, and should be done for His glory, so many times our "self" gets in the way and it becomes more about what WE are doing, what WE are achieving, and how WE are viewed. Jesus gets put on the back burner because we get too focused on ourselves.

But John demonstrated his right heart when he replied, "No one can receive anything unless God gives it from heaven. You yourselves know how plainly I told you, 'I am not the Messiah. I am only here to prepare the way for him.' It is the bridegroom who marries the bride, and the bridegroom's friend is simply glad to stand with him and hear his vows. Therefore, I am filled with joy at his success. He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less."

Wouldn't it be so great if society could think the way John thought? If we could all have a heart to esteem our brothers and sisters in Christ, rejoice in their blessings, and encourage them in their efforts to be all God has called them to be?

What if we stopped comparing and competing, and just celebrated ourselves and each other with joy?

What if everything we did, we did to make Jesus greater and greater, and ourselves less and less?

There is NO COMPARISON to a life filled with love, encouragement, acceptance, and humility.

Can you think of a time when you have felt a competitive spirit on been stuck in comparing yourself to someone else? We would love to hear your thoughts.


Betty Predmore

Betty Predmore is a writer, blogger, speaker and ministry leaders. She is the founder of Mom-Sense, Inc., a ministry designed for mentorship, connection and service to women of all life circumstances. Through this ministry, women are encouraged and supported with scripture and life application. Mom-Sense helps women overcome life struggles through small group classes with biblical curriculum, individual counseling, bible studies, and other areas of support.

Betty also directs the Imperial Valley Life Center, which is a non-profit faith-based pro life women’s resource center. She has a passion for saving the unborn and supporting mothers through pregnancy and motherhood.

Betty loves to speak at events, sharing the love of Jesus with other women. She does this through practical life application mingled with God’s word, and sprinkled with humor. Having experienced a broken home, divorce, abuse, grief, single motherhood, blended families, and adoption, she uses the broken places and movement of God in her own life to share His word in an inspiring way. She enjoys sharing her blogs on social media as a way of reaching out on a broader spectrum. Betty has many speaking topics which can be found on her website: www.bettypredmore.com

As an author, she has had the opportunity to impact women and reach deep into their hearts with her words of inspiration and encouragement. Through Pondering Virtue and Whispered Grace, she has created wonderful tools for the woman who is seeking direction in her spiritual walk.

Betty serves on the writing team of A Wife Like Me, and is also a contributor to Moms Encouraging Moms and Gift of Thorns. Her blogs have appeared in several magazine publications throughout the years including Southern Faith Magazine, Purposeful Life, and Aspiring Woman Magazine.

While Betty thrives on her ministry opportunities, her greatest blessings come from being a wife to Jim and a mama to their wonderful collection of children, who bring joy, laughter, and an occasional tear to her days.


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