What Do You See?

 
 

You may have heard of the television talk show, The View. A panel of women get together and discuss their opinions on various topics. Often, there is a difference of opinion. The hosts often have varying opinions on what is truth or how something should be.

We see differences of opinions in many relationships. Marriages, friendships, coworkers, the list goes on. Sometimes it is just a matter of two people looking at an issue in two different ways.

John 6:4-14 gives us an example of looking at things two different ways:

Now the Passover, a feast of the Jews, was there. Then Jesus lifted up his eyes, and seeing a great multitude coming toward him, he said to Philip, “Where shall we buy bread, that these may eat?“ But this he said to test him, for he himself knew what he would do.

Philip answered him, “Two hundred denarii worth of bread is not sufficient for them, that everyone of them may have a little.”

One of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter’s brother, said to him, “There is a lad here who has five barley loaves and two small fish, but water they among so many?”

Then Jesus said, “Make the people sit down.“ Now there was much grass in the place. So the men sat down, in number about five thousand. And Jesus took the loaves, and when he had given thanks he distributed them to the disciples, and the disciples to those sitting down; and likewise of the fish, as much as they wanted. So when they were filled, he said to his disciples, gather up the fragments that remain, so that nothing has lost. Therefore they gathered them up, and filled twelve baskets with the fragments of the five barley loaves which were left over by those who had eaten. Then those men, when they had seen the sign that Jesus did, said, “This is truly the Prophet who is to come into the world.”

Here we have an issue. We have a whole lot of people and only a little bit of food. And here we also see two different sides to the issue. On one side, we have disciples who are worried and fretting about where the food will come from and what they’re going to do. On the other hand, we have Jesus who is calm and doesn’t seem bothered in the least.

The disciples are seeing the mass amount of people as a huge problem. Jesus looks at the people as an opportunity to love on them and to show them how powerful God is.

When you are facing a problem, or sharing a difference of opinion with someone, what do you see? Do you see the problem as insurmountable? Do you see only your side and how you might come out the “winner”? Or do you see it as Jesus saw the 5000 that day...a chance to love someone and affirm that they are valuable?

God can do wondrous things in the midst of our opposing viewpoints, if we step back and let him. Don’t doubt what God can do. Don’t feel like the problem is just too big. Nothing is too big for our big, big God.


Betty Predmore

Betty Predmore is a writer, blogger, speaker and ministry leaders.  She is the founder of Mom-Sense, Inc., a ministry designed for mentorship, connection and service to women of all life circumstances.  Through this ministry, women are encouraged and supported with scripture and life application. Mom-Sense helps women overcome life struggles through small group classes with biblical curriculum, individual counseling, bible studies, and other areas of support.  

Betty also directs the Imperial Valley Life Center, which is a non-profit faith-based pro life women’s resource center.  She has a passion for saving the unborn and supporting mothers through pregnancy and motherhood.

Betty holds a certification as a Christ-Based Counselor through the National Association of Certified Christ-Based Counselors. She is also a State of California Certified Facilitator for Anger Management/Batterer’s Treatment Program. In addition, she is a certified Facilitator for Living Free, a faith-based curriculum for parenting, addiction recovery, and anger management.

Betty loves to speak at events, sharing the love of Jesus with other women.  She does this through practical life application mingled with God’s word, and sprinkled with humor.  Having experienced a broken home, divorce, abuse, grief, single motherhood, blended families, and adoption, she uses the broken places and movement of God in her own life to share His word in an inspiring way.  She enjoys sharing her blogs on social media as a way of reaching out on a broader spectrum. Betty has many speaking topics which can be found on her website.

As an author, she has had the opportunity to impact women and reach deep into their hearts with her words of inspiration and encouragement.  Through Pondering Virtue and Whispered Grace, she has created wonderful tools for the woman who is seeking direction in her spiritual walk.

Betty serves on the writing team of A Wife Like Me, and is also a contributor to Moms Encouraging Moms and Gift of Thorns.  Her blogs have appeared in several magazine publications throughout the years including Southern Faith Magazine, Purposeful Life, and Aspiring Woman Magazine.

While Betty thrives on her ministry opportunities, her greatest blessings come from being a wife to Jim and a mama to their wonderful collection of children, who bring joy, laughter, and an occasional tear to her days.

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